How to Have a Lucid Dream – Wake up in a Dream

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Use Reality Checks to Become Lucid in a Dream - Kim Leng
Use Reality Checks to Become Lucid in a Dream - Kim Leng
Lucid dreaming need not be elusive. Some simple techniques can make it possible for almost anyone.

Lucid dreaming can be a very powerful experience for the dreamer. “You can be the absolute master of your dream world,” says MortalMist.com, a website and forum dedicated to lucid dreaming. “The very laws of nature can be bent and broken. No experience is beyond your reach, no feat too difficult or risky. If you can imagine it, you can make it happen.”

Many people report wonderful experiences in the dream worlds they’ve created. For some, though, lucid dreaming remains elusive. But there is good news; becoming skilled at "waking up" in a dream may be easier than it seems. There are several techniques that can be used to enter the world of lucid dreaming.

Lucid dreaming requires three things:

  1. the ability to recall dreams,
  2. a technique, known as a reality check, to become aware of dreaming, and
  3. strategies to remain in the dream.

Tips for Recalling Dreams

Everyone dreams, but not everyone remembers his or her dreams. Sometimes even people who revel in dream recall go through periods where they can’t remember dreams. But that doesn’t mean lucid dreaming is lost to those who have trouble remembering dreams.

Dream recall is a skill that improves with practice. In fact, improved dream recall can happen readily, and all it requires is lying in bed, according to Ryan Dungan Hurd, editor of DreamStudies.org and a member of the International Association for the Study of Dreams.

Hurd suggests that people use the Snooze Method for Dream Recall. The name of the method may seem strange, but most find that it's a fairly easy way to remember dreams.

When people wake up, they usually change their body position almost immediately. “This actually dispels the body’s emotional traces of the last dream....And it’s totally over for remembering dreams once we start thinking about the day ahead.”

Hurd believes that memory traces are not just stored in the brain; he says they can be stored virtually anywhere in the body. The lungs, the belly, and the heart are among the largest of these body-cognition centers, and they process memory and emotion. He notes that people can use this same natural capacity of the body to help remember dreams, too.

So, to improve dream recall, remain in position upon waking; avoid moving into a new position. Then, actively attempt to recall the dream. If no images come, one may try focusing on any emotional residue that the dream may have left behind.

Once the dream is remembered, record it in a journal kept near the bed.

Becoming Aware in a Dream

Mortalmist.com says that there are two methods to becoming aware during a dream: Dream Initiated Lucid Dream (DILD) and Wake Initiated Lucid Dream. (WILD).

DILD involves recognizing dream signals – situations, people, and things that commonly occur in dreams, and practicing doing reality checks (RCs) any time these are encountered. RCs are consistent ways that people can use to determine whether they dreaming or awake. When an anomaly or something impossible occurs in a dream, do not ignore it or try to rationalize it. Let this odd occurrence be an indicator that it is a dream.

Some common dream signs include flying, walking through walls, or the appearance of someone who is dead in real life. Anything can be a dream signal and is unique to each individual dreamer. Select a recurring image, as it's said that it has a better chance of appearing in future dreams.

WILD requires hanging onto a thread of consciousness while falling asleep.“WILD methods are both rewarding and challenging,” according to MortalMist.com. But the site warns that trying to stay conscious while falling asleep requires discipline and practice. It can be frustrating for people trying to have their first lucid dream. The site doesn’t recommend beginners use this method, but it's noted that there’s no harm in trying.

While these two methods seem to be the most popular ways to enter into lucidity, there is one more method that can enhance the chances of getting lucid. This method is called the Wake Back To Bed (WBTB) method. Even though it sounds complicated, it just means that at some point during the night, usually after at least a few hours of sound sleep, the individual will try to stay awake for a time while engaging in a lucidity induction exercise intended to cause the person to "wake up" a bit. it's said that doing this will dramatically enhance the chances of having a lucid dream.

Finally, individuals should encourage lucid dreams, but one should not attempt to force them, as these kinds of efforts may result in an opposite effect. It is important to relax and be patient when trying to experience a lucid dream.

Staying in the Lucid Dream

One of the hardest challenges of lucid dreaming is staying in the dream once lucidity is realized. It is common to wake up immediately. For many people, the excitement of achieving lucidity the first couple times is pretty overwhelming. The key to staying in the dream seems to be keeping the dream senses occupied with things in the dream. There are several ways people can accomplish this. They can:

  • touch something;
  • focus on the ground or their hands or feet;
  • rub their hands together; or
  • spin, hard and fast.

Anything the individual can do to improve awareness of their dream surroundings may help them stabilize and remain in the dream.

Lucid dreams can be vivid rehearsals for waking life, but they can be just plain fun, too. Dreamers can fulfill fantasies and increase self-confidence. In addition, recurring dreams that once left people frustrated can be overcome and result in a more satisfying dream life. Remember, it may take time to have a lucid dream, but, in the long run, the experience is worth the effort.

For more information about lucid dreaming, visit the Lucidity Institute, DreamStudies.org, or MortalMist.com.

Kathy Jesperson , John Fekete

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Aug 5, 2010 2:44 PM
Guest :
You create the world of the dream. We bring the subject into that dream and fill it with their subconscious.
Aug 7, 2010 4:22 AM
Guest :
Spinning fast really helps me to stay in lucid dreams. When I remember to do it, of course:)
As for getting a lucid dream, I think what helps the most is try to be as much aware of yourself as possible during the day for say a week and to have regular sleep cycle. My experience shows that I get most lucid dreams when I try to fall asleep again in the morning.
Aug 9, 2010 10:25 AM
Deborah S. Hildebrand :
Interesting article; however, you never actually define that lucid dreaming is one in which the dreamer is aware they are dreaming -- as in the movie Inception. Even though it seems rather obvious, it's helpful to know.
Aug 10, 2010 8:50 AM
Guest :
Thats because Deborah, its pretty darn obvious. But thanks.
Aug 10, 2010 11:25 AM
Deborah S. Hildebrand :
Yeah, that's what I said. Thanks.
Aug 10, 2010 1:19 PM
Asia News Girl :
Spinning just makes me dizzy
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Aug 10, 2010 9:59 PM
Emma Hogan :
wonderful article and very informative! There is nothing better than dreaming and sometimes I'm disapointed when I wake up! thankyou for a beautiful article
Emma Jane
Aug 12, 2010 10:56 PM
Guest :
watch inception to know the power of dreams..
Aug 13, 2010 11:59 AM
Guest :
Somehow I'm not surprised the comments are filled with Inception references.

However, I find this to be really interesting! Definitely trying that. I am prone to realizing I'm asleep but waking up right away afterwards: next time spinning it is. ;)
Aug 15, 2010 9:03 AM
Guest :
Is there anyone who was actually interested in this concept before this Inception movie came out?
Aug 16, 2010 8:34 PM
Guest :
I've never seen inception but I'm a psychology major and absolutely fascinated with the mind, lucid dreaming is something I'm trying to master and am considering writing my thesis over the whole process.
Aug 16, 2010 9:26 PM
Guest :
for me its easiest to stay in a lucid dream when i focus on my mission in the dream itself. Then it becomes so much fun!!
Aug 16, 2010 11:12 PM
Guest :
I too was not the least bit amused with all the Inception refrences but have to admit I had an Inception type dream the other night. I woke up in a dream with people from my double dream and nobody else would wake up, it was mind boggilng. But I was definitely interested in this concept a while back, ever since I read a book and it told me how to remember my dreams I wanted to control them. I turned to Freud's interpretations of dreams and didn't find what I was looking for I'm hoping this article will help! I don't know if I agree with memories being stored in other body parts, but I did already come to the conclusion that if one stays warm and close to the position they wake up in and they immediately try to decipher what state of mind they were in seconds before, they will be more likely to recall more than they would staring at themselves brush their teeth. I'll report back if this article is successful.
-slb
Aug 17, 2010 5:45 PM
Guest :
I have always known when I'm in a dream, and been able to control it and wake up at will. It came as a complete surprise to me one day while talking about , that most people can't. And the pictures on the back of your eyelids when you just close your eyes and relax for 10 minutes? Like watching a TV screen? Scenes that you have never seen before..........people walking around in crowded asian market-places....tropical beaches...etc, etc. I thought EVERYONE had this stuff!!
Aug 18, 2010 6:38 PM
Guest :
I have not had a lot of practice with this, but I have tried this before and it does work. I remember that I had practiced doing "reality checks" regularly through out the day. Then, one night, I fell asleep, performed a reality check in my dream, realized I was dreaming and then the dream changed immediately and I woke up shortly thereafter. Granted, not entirely what lucid dreaming is about, but it was my first attempt (and the dream wasn't one I wanted to have, so it just ended). But I want to keep doing this so that I can have lucid dreams.
Aug 18, 2010 8:54 PM
Guest :
Not to bring up Inception again but watching the movie actually made me have a lucid dream (probably due to watching it right before going to bed). I was dreaming about the movie (something I usually do nights after watching intense movies), and after having been put in one of those machines I came to a sudden realization that I was dreaming which enabled me to fly for like 5 seconds:). I woke up thereafter. It was super exciting; I've been thinking about lucid dreaming since I had one as a kid, and recently started reading about it
Aug 18, 2010 8:57 PM
Guest :
If I could lucid dream I don't think I'd ever want to do anything but sleep....
Aug 20, 2010 1:48 AM
Guest :
Anyone interested in lucid dreaming should watch "Waking Life". Very philosophical, but good.
Aug 20, 2010 3:51 PM
Guest :
Inception XD
Aug 21, 2010 11:30 PM
Guest :
interesting
Aug 22, 2010 8:22 PM
Guest :
if i can control my dreams, i will be sleep all the time, and everybody will wonder where i am, and then they find me in bed, sleeping and dreaming, i wish if i could learn it fast. i am trying, but i am afraid that i don't learn it fast, and it take too long, and then i give up, and i want to make sure that lucid dreaming is true and i am trying to find someone who actually lucid dreaming, and then i will be sure and learn it, with any problems.
Aug 23, 2010 3:21 AM
Guest :
Keeping a dream journal helped me achieve a lucid dream once Greatest dream of my life. Me and a bunch of childhood friends were all playing tag and some how I realized I was dreaming. After that realization me and all my friends continued to play tag with super powers (flying, super speed, super strength, etc..). I look forward to my next one.
Aug 23, 2010 4:56 AM
Nancy Morrish :
...this is an excellent article Kathy, very interesting. I have been using DILD for many years. I used to have nightmares constantly as a young adult and eventually taught myself how to realize when I was dreaming. I taught my children the same technique when they were little. I think the concept is even easier to grasp when you are young. Consequently, I enjoy lucid dreaming and find it easy to remain asleep. Usually I try to make something happen or appear, my average is only about 35% but I'm working on it (flying is a favorite, but hard to conjure.)
Aug 24, 2010 5:47 AM
Guest :
I'm gonna try :)
Sep 10, 2010 2:09 PM
Guest :
this sounds amazing, i've wanted to have a lucid dream for years but have been unable to realize the fact that i was in a dream, but i'm going to keep at it!
Sep 10, 2010 11:23 PM
Guest :
I've never had a full on lucid dream
But I've had semi lucid dreams where feeling and 'sensations' seem so very real, lucid dreaming ftw
Sep 11, 2010 9:22 PM
Guest :
Just want to say thank you for this article, on behalf of the MM community! Also, if you are interested in learning about lucid dreaming, the film Inception isn't a great place to start. Just about everything it claims about dreaming is not factual.

Yes, a lot of people have been doing this for a long time. Inception and Avatar have both helped raise awareness of this most amazing ability all of us share. And amazing doesn't even begin to describe it.
Sep 12, 2010 8:38 AM
Guest :
Oh, very good article, thanks for sharing! Also, inception was pretty poor when it comes down to dream control, I recommend reading this to see some suggestions on real control: http://personaldevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/how-to-control-your-dre ams
Sep 16, 2010 3:34 AM
Guest :
I have epilepsy, and what is described as a lucid dream is what I experience after a seizure which I have had in my sleep. Maybe there is something in that to help people to experiencing lucidity.
Oct 22, 2010 3:06 PM
Guest :
I have lucid dreams all the time. ... scariest part is that they usually (or part of them usually) come true sometime in the future. I had a lucid dream where I was in a team scavenger hunt. I remember a lot of details but the one that was odd was at the end. My ex roommate who I do not get along with, was sitting next to me at the awards ceremony and she had a baby girl on her lap. I asked if it was hers and she said yes.. two weeks later she found out she was pregnant. a few months later she found out it was a girl. This happens way too much to me...
Oct 22, 2010 4:42 PM
Guest :
I have done such things as staying in my dream even though my body is physically trying to wake up. I have infact been able to take control of my dream rather than let it control me. It is an exuberant feeling, and this post has helped me understand more about it.
thank you
Nov 23, 2010 1:02 PM
Guest :
DO WANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dec 4, 2010 7:38 PM
Guest :
I'm scared by this. I dont wanna wake up in da middle of the night. I want to dream though. ;(
Dec 6, 2010 7:23 PM
Guest :
Didn't know there were several methods of doing this! I often tend to just stay in bed after I've woken up and trying to remember the dream, then falling into a semi-sleep like state and then it continues. This was very informative! :)
Dec 8, 2010 7:24 AM
Guest :
Hey, My name is Sabrina... and im 14 years old. Whenever i had lucid dream I'm always feeling or hearing buzzing in my ears when i was asleep. I can see the images and hear the sounds around me. but not clearly because sometimes the background are full black. And I can see myself lying in my bed, and I'm walking and seeing people especially some of my relatives. but they don't see me, whenever I'm talking no one seems to hear me and when I'm shouting really loud no one can really hear. I start to feel that feeling since i was 11 or 12. tell me if it's something wrong about me.
Dec 13, 2010 9:38 AM
Guest :
The Movie inception is crap l started watching it tonight and became bored and didnt bother watching the rest and l love anything to do with dreams maybe if there was less bullshit talk and more action l would have kept watching it...
Dec 14, 2010 3:12 AM
Guest :
I've become a pretty good lucid dreamer and yes I do enjoy them since I am in control of my actions, communicating with other characters + listening, and exploring what is around me depending on the setting of the dream.

Exactly when you are in that stage when your body is numb/sleepy you'll notice swirling patterns appear and vanish constantly. Try not to fall asleep, but wait for the dream to start. It takes practice, but you'll find methods within time that works great for you as a dreamer.

Sometimes I've woken up in the middle of the night and my body is still asleep, but can not fully wake up even if I wanted too, and very shortly after fall right into a dream that I can see clear. :p

Since I've been doing this a long time I've come across something else that might be interesting to you guys to be aware of. Careful though sometimes you will get some kind of "spirit" vistor, do not be frightened. Just roll with it. It's almost like when you are in a lucid state of mind, your awareness spikes so high yes it is possible that you can come across "spirits".
Jan 4, 2011 11:32 PM
Guest :
Be careful, your actually traveling to another dimension. Those who you run into in your lucid dream, are entities. You may not know who your messing with.
Jan 8, 2011 9:45 PM
Guest :
Everytime i find out im dreaming i wake up >:(
Jan 18, 2011 7:47 PM
Guest :
I have been having these dreams for years but was never really interested unto about a year ago. My friend told me he was having these dreams that he could control and they were weird. It was then that I started to study and this article was very helpful in my studies and with how ti work it out well.
Jan 21, 2011 11:49 AM
Guest :
If you want a great Lucid Dream, listen to I-Doser's Lucid Dream Track
Jan 21, 2011 1:50 PM
Guest :
I've had lucid dreams since i was a kid, it's great, i can make myself fly!
Jan 22, 2011 9:03 AM
Guest :
A lucid dream, or otherwise known as OBE, or Astral Travel, is initially seperating your consience (soul) from your body and therefore, when trying to focus on your hands or feet, you will find that they quickly dimminish, or fade away whilst looking at them. This is due to your realisation being that you 'think' your body should be there so when you look, you see it for a few seconds before it fades away. There are lots of techniques on how to Lucid Dream, and it's a matter of finding the right one for you.
Jan 22, 2011 9:44 AM
Guest :
Lucid dreaming - here are my tips, as someone who has had and still does often have vivid and 'controlled' dreams: Firstly, like the article briefly mentions, the act of journaling your dreams or writing them down immediately upon waking works in several ways. As you do it more, your dreams will tend to become more vivid, or at least your recollection of them will. The dream is stored in a part of the brain that is very temporal, so unless the dreamer has the dedication to write down everything he or she can remember before it is forgotten, most of the dream will slip away before it is recalled; however, by recalling the dream it becomes more concrete, and subsequent dreams will be easier to recall due to this practice.

The second way that journalling your dreams helps is it will gradually indicate what I called "dream cues" or signs within a dream that inform the dreamer he or she is dreaming. These become very important in the act of lucid dreaming. For example (although these examples may not be true for other dreamers as they are for me), when dreaming, I often find myself in a place very distant to where I know I went to sleep. If I'm currently living in Victoria BC, but I find myself in my high school in Alberta, I know it is not where I went to sleep, this is a strong indication that I'm dreaming. Another example is the 'shapeshifter' - a person I recognize, and old friend, or a relative, however, their appearance is dramatically different than normal, perhaps I'm talking in the dream to my uncle, Fred, but he looks like a giant bear, or he is far too fat, or too skinny, or just doesn't look the same as he usually does. This is also a strong indication of a dream state.

Other indications that gradually became evident in my dream journals indicative of a dream state include the absence of clocks or watches, my own inability to find out what time it was, or what day for that matter. If I could find a clock, the numbers were unreadable or the hands of the clock were moving irrationally. An absence of mirrors or reflective surfaces also is a trend in my own dreams. And of course, any of the common impossibilities - flying, breathing underwater, injury without pain ect.

So, as the dreamer becomes more and more aware of these 'dream cues' or indicators that he or she is dreaming, the real challenge (that I don't feel was well explained in the article,) is for the dreamer to inform themselves that they are dreaming within the dream state, without doing so in a way that causes themselves to wake up. The common problem for most dreamers is that the shock of realizing one is dreaming almost always causes the dreamer to awaken. The trick is for the dreamer to notice the cues within the dream state almost in a surreptitious or sneaky way, then to inform themselves that they are dreaming almost as though they were telling themselves a secret.

For example, if I found myself hiking in the mountains with some old work friends I'd not seen in a decade, as I became more immersed in the dream I may have a reccollection that I did not go to sleep in the mountains, in fact, I am nowhere near the mountains when I went to sleep, I would simply note this without surprise (in my dream state), and my conscious mind would, in an almost conspiratorial whisper, say to my dreaming self 'psst! don't look now, but I think this might be a dream"... and then I would continue dreaming, now aware of my dream, I would attempt to manifest changes within the dream, bring new characters into the dream, fly around, do magic tricks, get the girls naked, that kind of thing.

I hope these tips are helpful, Enjoy!
Jan 24, 2011 7:35 PM
Guest :
I think I have achieved quite a few lucid dreams, but I am never in complete control. For instance, if I want to run, I can barely move my legs and for some reason my vision always goes away in lucid dreams. Also, if I want to make out with let's say Robert Pattinson or something, he always turns into someone else, an unattractive someone else.
Jan 24, 2011 11:14 PM
Guest :
so glad i stumbled upon this i love lucid dreaming, in my rare experiences with it. my dream cue is ALWAYS when my teeth start to fall out. my teeth have come out in my dreams for years, and finally my dream-self got the hint.

i had one about 3 nights ago. i was grinding my teeth so hard that four of them fell out all in a row. i was terrified at first, but then i looked up at my friend and said "wait, AM I DREAMING?!?!" i remember her nod and my excitement. i remember saying "but this all seems so real!" and then running to the mirror and seeing that all my teeth were back. i woke up sooner than i would have liked, as usual.
Jan 25, 2011 11:50 AM
Guest :
Very interesting indeed!
Jan 26, 2011 9:04 AM
Guest :
I often have lucid dreams and I'm really impressed... But the one thing that helps me have them is taking a nap during the day...I think I am more conscious then, than when sleeping at night
Jan 28, 2011 3:54 AM
Guest :
I only found out about lucid dreams recently when i was describing to a friend what happened to me when I tried to fall asleep after taking ketamine. I've tried it twice and for me it is the best way to enter a lucid dream. Take ket and go to bed.
Jan 29, 2011 1:59 AM
Guest :
I have dreams in which I know that I'm dreaming quite often. Most times, I am paralyzed while screaming voices, people, spirits, flames, pressure, and wind rage around me. The dreams will vary slightly, but there is always an overwheming sense of fear, panic, and doom. It's very scary because it feels real.I try to control the hell that surrounds my body by imagining things more pleasant like warm beaches and golden sunsets, but nothing changes. Even though I am completley aware of my dream state, I do not have the power to control it. I lay there knowing I am asleep and dreaming while my body cant move or speak. I've found the best way to wake myself up is to breathe as fast as I can because it's the only part of my body I can control. I understand the appeal of a lucid dream to those who have never experienced it, but I think you should respect the power of the subconscious mind and understand that you may not have complete control. These dreams can actually be quite terrible so exercise caution. I have had them a few times a week since addolesance, and I've yet to find a way to control them. In my case, they're more prone to happen when I take a good nap. Anyone else out there have dreams like these? Explanations or suggestions would be appreciated :)
Jan 29, 2011 4:53 AM
Guest :
this is what you have to do when you're soooo high and want to stay awake in real world...
Jan 30, 2011 11:41 PM
Guest :
inception sucks, lucid dreaming is the shit
Feb 2, 2011 4:04 PM
Guest :
And I have a technique that will help you have a lot more dreams this is going to sound crazy but it works really well for me. some times I will smoke marijuana socially for a few days like over the weekend or something and then stop for a while and every time I stop I have non stop dreams every night for a few days. it wont happen when you smoke only when you stop. I'm not sure why, but I do know it can effect the imaginative part of your brain. And when you stop it probably gives your brain more processing and memory recollection ability maybe in combination with a residual heighten sense of creativity. Also marijuana helps your brain relax so maybe with out it your brain stays a little more active during sleep. but any ways it works great for me give it a shot.
Feb 3, 2011 9:01 PM
Guest :
For some reason, once I become lucid and realize I am dreaming, I go to touch something, and have this internal struggle. Because on half of my brain will say something like "You can't read with your eyes closed, dummy. Open them." while the other half says "But I can see just fine. My eyes are closed but I am dreaming. Don't open them." And then suddenly, I jerk awake. Same goes with touching things in the dream. Does anyone else experience this?
Feb 4, 2011 2:18 PM
Guest :
I think I had a Lucid dream last night. I had been restless beforehand, and I was lying in bed at around 5 in the morning trying to sleep. I must have fallen asleep, but I had this really strange dream. I was in my room, in the same position as I had been when I was awake. It was like I was awake, but I knew I was dreaming..I stood up and walked over to my dresser. For some reason everything was on the floor, and when I reached to get the things to put them back, I saw that my hands were covered in these large, plastic rings. That's when I knew that I was dreaming. For some reason, I started to panic and I jumped on to my bed. Then I started to cry out for help, but no one came. That's when I finally woke up.
Feb 7, 2011 12:19 AM
Guest :
I discovered lucid dreaming without realizing it. When I told my boyfriend, he looked at me like I was crazy. I have recurring dreams with guns, whether im using them against someone, or someone is using them against me. One night, I was having a dream where I was in danger, and a man had a gun. I was running but he caught up. I turned to face him. As I did so, he shot at me, and in that moment it was like time froze and the bullets were moving very, very slowly. I had suddenly recognized the recurring dream and my dream self realized that it was a dream. The bullets went back to speed and they missed me (usually I get shot). I then whispered the word "invincible" (lame, i know) and smoke came out of my mouth in the form of the word. It quickly dispersed everywhere, I could see where it went, and I knew that I was safe. I ended up taking the gun from the man, shooting him (eek) and going to find another bad guy (haha) to get him. I woke up before I found him.
Feb 8, 2011 6:25 AM
Guest :
Side-affects? What if the dreams become less real in proportion to the control exerted; until they are no more real than day dreams. free2click@yahoo.com
Feb 8, 2011 1:54 PM
Guest :
Is it just me or do all lucid dreams turn into sex dreams where you wake up too soon and angry?
Feb 9, 2011 3:45 PM
Guest :
Wake induced lucid dreams ARE harmful. They can cause Sleep Paralysis. That basically means that you are awake but you can't move. It can last from 3 seconds to 7 minutes. And, your dreams? Yeah, while in sleep paralysis, they can easily seem as real as the covers on your bed. And they are often terrifying.

-LRHB
Feb 10, 2011 11:50 PM
Guest :
It waz rily gud !
Feb 11, 2011 10:00 AM
Guest :
It's a great article, i'm a person who was seemingly born a lucid dreamer. As long as i can remember i have always been able to control what's going on in my dreams and if it changes into a nightmare i just change it. I have only once experienced sleep paralysis and it wasn't terrifying, i just closed my eyes, focused and i came out out it. Guess i just have a weird brain.
Feb 12, 2011 11:03 PM
Guest :
I thought I was crazy until I read this. I used to always describe what it was like to people and try to get them to do it themselves but no one knew how. thanks for the enlightment (:
Feb 13, 2011 7:44 PM
Guest :
Nice article. Hits on many areas where I have had the dreams occur. From my own experience, of not wanting them to happen, leaving a task undone or some other time-related stressor triggered the waking dream state. Also, I am a stomach-sleeper but when I lucid, I am on my back. So restlessness, or being in a not-so-comfortable position might be triggering. Also, id like to add that these things scare the crap out of me. They are not pleasant but I read these articles because I want them to be. An article about how to make them more pleasant would make me a regular reader.
Feb 13, 2011 7:59 PM
Guest :
Just read Guest comment from January 29 and am stunned to relate that this is exactly what happens to myself. This is sleep paralysis. These are terrifying states where you are partially awake and unable to move. For myself, this is the threshold to a lucid dream. If you struggle with it, it becomes like a nightmare. Your breathing technique is good advice. Gonna give that a try. But, once i'm passed that threshold (of accepting that, 'ok, this is ONCE AGAIN happening. I have to go with it'), i go back to sleep. I'll dream but it will be more vivid. I cant recall if I am able to willfully fly or walk through walls but often, I will want to be somewhere and be there. As if I was always there. The nice part of these dreams are the strangers. People I have never met, who are the koolest, most down-to-earth folks, are actors in my dreams who I regret not knowing in waking life. I see these as folks i'll meet when I die. They could also just be people who passed on who can relate to me. Who knows? All I know is the dreams are peaceful and are unique to my interests. I dont think there is a universally good lucid dream. They always seem designed by your subconcious. But get past that fear threshold and I think you'll lucid.
Feb 14, 2011 4:15 PM
Guest :
I remember doing this when I was a kid, so for all of you saying that all of this came out because of inception, you're fucking wrong. =)

No ima go and try to make it happen again, FUCKYEAH!
Feb 17, 2011 4:07 AM
Guest :
how do u wake up in the real world from a lucid dream?
Feb 17, 2011 11:58 AM
Guest :
why does it matter if inception inspired people to learn more about lucid dreaming or not. does it matter what motivates people to learn more about themselves? i think inception allowed this concept to appeal to a mass audience. whether people took it for entertainment value or something deeper shouldn't change the degree in how dedicated they are to something. worry about your dreams, and let others live theirs.
Feb 18, 2011 10:09 PM
Guest :
is it easyer 4 a teen of 13 or an adult because 13
Feb 20, 2011 11:58 AM
Guest :
I've heard aout Lucid Dreaming before, however I don't quite understand how you get into the kucid dream, or like how to become the "master of your dream" i mean do you simply do it or is there a process to doing so? I don't know, it's a really intersting article, however I don't understand how it's done?
Feb 21, 2011 12:21 PM
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I talk in my sleep... every night. And have crazy dreams every night. One out of four I slightly remember. Will I stop saying "french toast" during the night if I practice this? My bf is probably getting tired of my mubble jumble talk every night.
Feb 21, 2011 3:23 PM
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This one time I woke up and was having a lucid dream. I was looking at a bulletin board and couldn't read a damn thing! then I noticed words kinda etched onto these papers at the bottom but I can only remember letters I think it said TROOS ANKI...there was more but I couldn't remember then after I woke up. I went back to bed and started to realize I was transitioning into my ethereal body and usually its scary and I can't tell if I'm breathing so I told myself to just go! Then I was out of my body in my bedroom doorway and I just wanted to get outside but was scared of seeing other beings and also couldn't tell if my body was breathing and as I "ran" closer to the front door I was breathing really heavy, kinda panicking and I reached the front door, faded to black and I woke. It was sweet and I want to do it again but can't! I think I smoke too much weed tho I think it does something to my consciousness when I sleep or I sleep too deep.
Feb 21, 2011 10:37 PM
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I found this article very interesting. I think half the battle for a lot of people is the realization of dreaming on it's own, which for me I for the most time realize i am dreaming, the dreams that feel too real and I don't realize I'm dreaming really scare me lol. Well lucid dreaming is a concept I have always wanted to experience. Well one day months after becoming sober and quitting cigarettes I had a dream about such vices and realized I was dreaming and was able to change the outcome of the dream but once I got too excited about the vice I woke up. But I aim to slowly prefect lucid dreaming. I just try to not focus on it too hard and hopefully It will come to me.
But I really have to thank you for the tricks on staying in the lucid dream. Hopefully it helps with my journey.
Feb 22, 2011 10:46 AM
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what? how on earth do you control yourself in your dream and decide to spin? :\
Feb 23, 2011 3:49 AM
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I am totally going to try this. I remember when I was about 8-ish years old, there were monsters (from Monsters Inc) in my dream and they were walking around the playground at my school and I said, "This isn't real." and then I woke up.
Feb 23, 2011 3:53 PM
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so let me get this right.. is it like "real dreams" when you feel the things that are happening in the dream? For example, being electrocuted in the dream, but feeling it in your body in real life? (that happened when i was younger).. if so, wow, explains so much and I have been doing this for a very long time.. subconsciously lol..

very interesting!! thank you
Feb 24, 2011 5:24 PM
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Lucid dreams have become a regular thing for me of late. Aswell i normally go into this state in the morning when drifting back off to sleep. 90% of the time the realisation brings me out of the lucid state. How the mind boggles itself!
Feb 24, 2011 10:36 PM
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D M T
Feb 27, 2011 5:05 AM
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wow Until i read this i had no idea i have been using the WBTB method for years. Pretty cool
Feb 27, 2011 3:03 PM
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I've had lucid dreams before and they're an amazing experience. I used to have them regularly without trying and could do anything I wanted to in my dream world as I was fully aware that I was in a dream. I haven't had a lucid dream for a long time but I wish I could. I will try the reality check method as I frequently have recurring themes in dreams which I can remember vividly. Good luck to anyone trying out these techniques.
Feb 27, 2011 4:18 PM
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Whenever I've had lucid dreams in the past, they start with me thinking I woke up in my bed, and out of habit whenever I wake up I go on my laptop

Because you can't access the internet in dreams I use this as my reality check
Feb 27, 2011 8:37 PM
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I will definitely try these methods, simply because I've got nothing to lose, but I'm not sure I trust scientists and philosophers and members of special organizations with something this spiritual. It's like trusting an adult to do a kid's job, or trusting an adult to understand what a kid is thinking. They just don't think like we do, even if they had once before.
Mar 1, 2011 8:58 AM
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wow, i never realized that lucid dreaming was a feat. its always come naturally to me since childhood. it feels powerful to think of it in this way...it feels new....impressive.
Mar 5, 2011 8:06 AM
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It's unstable! The dream is collapsing!!
Mar 7, 2011 12:10 PM
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oh my Im going to take a nap now.
Mar 8, 2011 6:10 PM
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Ive had these lucid dreams a few times, and ill share a bit from the last dream. (since its the only one I still remember)

As soon as i realized it was a dream, i sorta woke up in a way.. its hard to explain, but in a way i knew it was a dream all along, but i just didnt have that self control. In other words, it was like someone else had the controller to my body, and just handed it to me, moving on.
When i realized i could move around and do stuff of my own free will, the first thing i did was to test if this REALLY was a dream, im pretty sure the test was grabbing a random woman on streets breasts and see her reaction, when she didnt react at all, i confirmed it was a dream, and i had full control, so i started i started right away, as i knew it wouldnt last forever and didnt want to waste any time, and actually felt kinda like in a rush all through the dream.
I ran around doing all sorts of stuff, well, you can only imagine what i did, seeing as im a 19 year old boy ;) but thats not really the point. One thing that needs to be noted, is that i was very consious at the time, i even remember moving in bed a few times on purpose, all while trying to cling on to the dream, succesfully.
At the end of the dream.. what seemed like the last 20-30min i got very tired, so tired i literally had to crawl on all four at some times.

The whole thing is very weird and hard to explain, but i must say, this is the first site about this ive ever come across, and i never tried to force any of the dreams, and the dreams came on routine days, so i have no idea about how to "trigger them" but if its possible, i highly recommend it. It can be a very pleasant experience, just one last tip, watch out, because in the dream you can easally control your own body and its movements, but ive never been able to switch enviroment in any other way than walking/running away, which isnt much use if the entire enviroment is changing on you. What im trying to say is, if you cant control the enviroment, it can turn into a nightmare, which was what i experienced at the end of the dream i was talking about, but the thing is, because your in that "semi-awake state" the nightmare x100 times worse than a normal nightmare.. its a completely different thing, and not funny. The good thing about it, is that because your in that state your in, its pretty easy to haul yourself out of the dream, actually waking up yourself.

Just thought id share my experience with anyone who hasnt tried it yet.

Thanks for reading!
Mar 13, 2011 4:40 PM
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inception?!?!
Mar 13, 2011 9:46 PM
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i always wanted to realize and manipulate my dream, in-fact once or twice i think i've realized that am in a dream state but woke up or i guess could not control or remember what happened next. my dreams r usually fantasy like flying, evil demons, space, ocean, being in a mythological Indian era. But why at that time am not able to realize that its something impossible and become self aware at that moment.

zigbee_hehe@rediffmail.com
Mar 13, 2011 10:06 PM
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I used to have lucid dreams very easily when I was younger. Like 4 or 6 years old. I tried doing it again and now it seems impossible. I'd wake up and remember I forgot to realize I was dreaming. I used to blurt out "Am I dreaming?" in the middle of my dream and know I was and still dreamt for a few more hours. I'm so glad I stumbled across this. Thank you. ^-^
Mar 14, 2011 10:53 AM
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Inception :) ^_^ i want to do this!
Mar 16, 2011 8:41 PM
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if i have a dream and can remember it i will focus on key events, people, items, places, that come up in the dream and try to decipher what the mess means as a whole. sometimes if your mind picks up on emotions and things through out the day and as your dreaming your mind prepares you for future events by signals and something as simple as another's body language from the day b4 and turns them into hints for what could happen. sometimes these things do. can be related deja vu/precog/premonition. as for having any control in dreams...never happened. i react as i would in a dream as i would if it were really happening.
Mar 16, 2011 10:43 PM
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is anyone capable of dream extraction?
Mar 19, 2011 12:06 AM
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sometimes i have dreams when i think its real is that what these dreams feel like ?
Mar 19, 2011 10:48 PM
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SUCKERPUNCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mar 20, 2011 4:16 PM
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Its a bit like Minecraft :D
Mar 21, 2011 10:18 AM
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i'm scared of trying lucid dreaming. i'm scared i might not be able to wake up, or may not be able to differentiate being awake from dreaming... and, i might develop sleep-walking, etc.
Mar 22, 2011 12:44 PM
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I've done a lot of research on dimethyltriptamine (DMT), the chemical secreted from the pineal gland in your brain that causes you to dream at night, before reading this article. I've always been fascinated, and I think knowing what I know about DMT supports what this article has to say. The Sprit Molecule by Dr. Strausman is a very good book to start with. I think everyone should have at least 100 lucid dreams in their lives. It's entertaining, and you can practice interviews, sports, conversations with people... and literally anything else. It's definitely one of my favorite hobbies!
Mar 24, 2011 7:06 AM
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it sounds complicated... but ill try it based on my undestanding of the above texts. found on stumble.
Mar 24, 2011 1:54 PM
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I've never had a lucid dream, or at least I don't remember having one. So I'm definitely trying this. It sound pretty awesome!
Mar 26, 2011 5:08 PM
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awesome i am going to try it
Mar 26, 2011 7:42 PM
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wow to be honest my brother and i thought we were the only ones who come by this naturally. we tell people and they just stare blankly. i'm like, "have you ever been able to control your dreams just like real life and do superhuman things?" and they normally respond with a, "no...." and a strange look.
Mar 27, 2011 3:40 PM
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i remember reading about lucid dreaming in my New Scientist magazine, and tryed to do it i had a small amount of success with it, until recently.
i had given up with practicing it and then about 2 months ago i had a dream i was on top of a mountain and i was looking down into the most clear blue water which had a few lilly pads floating about, so i jumped into the water and this is where it started.
i remember it vividly, i imagined a small turtle, and there it was it appeared swimming in the water, and that sent a spark of excitement all through my body the possibility! my dream started to fade away because of the excitement, i then realized this was happening (after reading about Lucid Dreaming before) and managed to calmed myself down and continued with the dream it was the most fun i had ever had! i made myself fly turned, my dream into a movie it was brilliant it all felt so real, but then i woke up and remember saying to myself ' wow that was amazing' and i was just bemused for the next couple of minutes, since then i've been researching on how i can make it happen again, i haven't had much luck since but this article has helped :)
I've been wanting to tell people about my experience for so long but haven't told anyone because i don't think anyone would believe me.
Mar 28, 2011 8:57 AM
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I've done a lot of research on dimethyltriptamine (DMT), the chemical secreted from the pineal gland in your brain that causes you to dream at night, before reading this article. I've always been fascinated, and I think knowing what I know about DMT supports what this article has to say. The Sprit Molecule by Dr. Strausman is a very good book to start with. I think everyone should have at least 100 lucid dreams in their lives. It's entertaining, and you can practice interviews, sports, conversations with people... and literally anything else. It's definitely one of my favorite hobbies!
Mar 30, 2011 6:54 PM
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I woke up one morning and went back to sleep, and I went down stairs and had some breakfast. Then I woke up and realized I was dreaming. Was it a lucid dream?
Apr 3, 2011 3:05 PM
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so i just thought i would mention the potential danger of sleep paralysis. look it up and make your decision wisely
Apr 4, 2011 1:24 PM
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I believe I sometimes experience something called "sleep paralysis". Sometimes, before I wake, I am trapped in the dream, but am fully conscious of it. I cannot move or exit the dream for about a few minutes. It is not always pleasant, because I sometimes feel there is something watching over me while this happens and have on occasion heard voices and sounds around my room during the paralysis.
I am fully aware that this is a natural occurrence. It can sometimes be a little scary, but after I have self diagnosed, it doesn't bother me.
Can I use this as an advantage to lucid dream?
Apr 14, 2011 9:24 PM
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If you have an interest in this material, read Robert Waggoner's Lucid Dreaming. This book is written by one of the world's most eminent dream scholars, and is one of my favorite books I have ever read. It is a collection of insights regarding experiments done within the lucid dreaming state and their implications for the nature of mind. It's like this article except 20,000x more in depth.
Apr 15, 2011 11:19 AM
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When you are dreaming and are about to wake up but your body feels paralyzed, that's because it is. Your brain relaxes all the muscles in your body when you go into REM sleep (where you experience dreams that are linear and that have a plot). Your brain does this so that you don’t harm yourself - and perhaps others - while dreaming of being capable of flight or of being a cat scratching the sofa. When you wake during this sleep cycle, you may have a sensation of paralysis for a few moments because your brain has not given you back control of your body.
Apr 15, 2011 8:09 PM
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I THINK THIS SOUNDS AWESOM!!!
Apr 15, 2011 11:43 PM
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I've always wanted to be able to control anything in my dream - but every time I realise I'm having a dream, I wake straight up! I only ever seem to have good dreams (flying, jumping really high etc.) in the morning when my alarm goes off, waking me up from my excellent dream. When that happens, man, I really hate my alarm clock...
Apr 16, 2011 6:21 AM
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I'm still very frustrated with my inability to get this down.
I'll try some of these suggestions though!
Hopefully that'll help. :]
Apr 16, 2011 11:28 PM
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how can i do that?
Apr 17, 2011 10:00 PM
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Watch the movie Insidious! The little boy was a lucid dreamer and look what happend to him...
Apr 18, 2011 10:38 AM
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I get trapped in an in-between world sometimes. I will realize i am dreaming then get booted from my dream and wake up, but I am waking up in this tween world. It is my house, everything is exactly the same not like in a dream where things are little different. But its very dark and quite, like deafly quite. I have roamed my house for what seemed like hours before I ACTUALLY wake up. Very scary and unpleasant.
Apr 18, 2011 8:27 PM
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Lucid dreaming eh? I do this all the time.. but I never knew what it was. I always thought it some form of daydreaming, but I guess not. I really enjoy doing this, so much that sometimes, when I have free time, I will lay in bed, and let myself fall into a semi-concious state. Then I do a Reality Check, to find out whether I'm actually asleep or not. Then, I concentrate real hard on something I want to dream about, and then, it happens. I usually only have control of my dreams for a little while, where either I wake up, or the dream takes off on it's own and I lose control of it. Also, when I am in the process of waking up from a dream, where I'm still asleep but aware of the dream, I can take control of my dreams. Then, when I get bored, I wake up, and lie there and relive it all.
Apr 18, 2011 10:44 PM
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Before seeing this article when i was about 15 or 16. I am 19 now, i had a few dreams that didnt make sense such as after falling asleep the dream was me at my friends house. And after running around the neighborhood alittle i lost track of my friend so i went searching for him, and i didnt find him though i did find giant fire monsters. and it scared me so i started to run. after running a few blocks in my dream i looked over my shoulder and realized that "fire monsters" arnt real. and it creeped me out more and i decided in my dream that i wanted to see if it was a dream so i started to think about doing impossible tricks such as jumping over trees or up on top of 3 story houses. and it worked i could do those impossible things. i was so amazed and shortly after jumping on the roof of a house i was suddenly awakened. that was my first experience with anything like this. i have tried to do the same thing since with success in a total of maybe 4 or 5 times in a matter of 3 or 4 years. it truely is an amazing experience. the hardest part is realizing that your in a dream. and usually by the time i think about i wake up abruptly.
Apr 20, 2011 7:38 AM
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Cell memory is not proven. You don't store memories on other parts of your body beyond your brain, if you want to recall your dreams keep a dream diary.
Holding still will help you with your lucid dreams, if you wake up in the middle of the night. If you do wake up and it is still night time, don't move and go back to sleep, it will help your lucid dreaming.
Apr 20, 2011 12:00 PM
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I discovered lucid dreaming all by myself when I was a little kid. I used to have nightmares all the time and whenever I woke up and realized the dream wasn't real, I'd always think that if only I could realize within my dream that it was a dream, I wouldn't have to panic anymore and I could just ride it out. So, I decided that if something really scary was happening, that would be my cue to realize that it had to be a dream. It worked! After that, my dreams became fun, not scary, and I even started being able to control them.

Now that I'm an adult, I haven't been able to do it anymore. I hope I will be able to, again, sometime.
Apr 21, 2011 10:16 AM
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When I was a teenager I used to have very vivid dreams that used to bother me to a point where I'd wake up in a cold sweat screaming. I had to learn how to lucid dream so that I could control my dreams so I wouldn't have nightmares anymore.
Apr 21, 2011 11:48 AM
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encouraging! i have lots of lucid dreams (without knowing ne techniques) in the morning because my dogs bark, I wake up remember the dream, i fall back to sleep. This happens a few times every morning. But i wanna learn more. I am not religious any more, but i periodically have lucid dreams of an angry spirit trying to fuck w me. Its very fun to remember once i wake up
Apr 24, 2011 7:08 AM
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I've had these dreams in the past
I was in a white room and I could fly, it was so amazing, I can still remember it, but then I failed to fly after I realised I was, I'll hold on next time.
Apr 28, 2011 7:37 PM
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What they are leaving out of this article is after u have mastered the lucid dreaming stages they give u above it can evolve into an Out of Body experience being lucid / conscience leaves ur third eye chakra / pineal gland open for u to wonder in either the 3D world we all live in or another dimension / spiritual state.

=D
Apr 29, 2011 5:15 PM
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so if i made something like a portal, that lead into the real world from my dream, would it work? has anyone tried it?
May 1, 2011 11:46 PM
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I never realized I was a lucid dreamer until I decided to "try it out". I started by thinking of dreams to have while I was trying to fall asleep. If I wake up in the middle of the night, I doggie too. I remember my first lucid dream, a fire was burning my house down and I was really scared til I realized it was just a dream, so I told itto quit and now I can easily lucid dream.
May 2, 2011 7:05 PM
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another good movie about lucid dreaming is vanilla sky with tom cruise. now that is an amazing movie
May 2, 2011 9:51 PM
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I found that when I meditated daily I was able to have lucid dreams. I feel empowered to this day at memories of flying through rainforests and it helped to stop and touch the ground or the bark of a tree. I can still feel it. Thanks for the article. You've reminded me to meditate again.
May 3, 2011 12:07 PM
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i find this very interesting. if only i can learn how to do this.
May 4, 2011 10:03 AM
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how do you accualy get it to were you can make an lucid dream?
May 5, 2011 4:44 PM
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If I go lucid I just pretend I'm with Megan Fox instead, that usually helps.
May 8, 2011 9:45 PM
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It sounds cliche but I bought a product called "Dream Water". It's supposed to help you sleep and it was the first time I had a lucid dream. Maybe it was more of a placebo. Who knows!
May 8, 2011 9:51 PM
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Every since I was young I have had two techniques in dreams that I use till this day. One is a way of how I check if I am sleeping, and another is how I wake myself up from the dream. To check if I'm in a dream I bite one of my fingers. In the dream my teeth go through my finer for some odd reason as if there is no finger there. How I wake up seems to be an odd one as well, I dive onto the ground with a head first dive. When I'm caught in a very scary situation in a dream I bite my finger, my teeth go through. Once that happens I dive onto my head. This has been a technique I have been using for 7 or 8 years now. I seem to always remember my dreams when taking a shower in the morning probably because all of the mixed emotions and thoughts going on in my head can bring me back. I also remember my first controlled dream ever... It was an amazing experience. It actually dates back all the way to 2nd grade. But I still know that I am no where near to mastering dreams, and hope to practice what I have just read now on.
May 8, 2011 10:21 PM
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I have always been fascinated with lucid dreaming, but more so my fascination is with sharing some thing common in a dream with another person at the same time. I think the mind is very powerful and is not limited to lucid dreaming. We can always strive to go further and deeper!
May 10, 2011 5:12 PM
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Lucid dreams are absolutely amazing. It's almost like Inception.
May 11, 2011 11:54 AM
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and anyone can conquer their dreams? and if you wanted you could fulfill your sex life, and dreams you want to do in real life? who would want to wake up.
May 11, 2011 4:19 PM
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I never knew you could make yourself lucid dream...I have always been able to since I was young. Very interesting
May 14, 2011 10:55 AM
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"Hurd believes that memory traces are not just stored in the brain; he says they can be stored virtually anywhere in the body. The lungs, the belly, and the heart are among the largest of these body-cognition centers, and they process memory and emotion." What complete rubbish!
May 14, 2011 2:32 PM
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As a child i was plagued nightmares. Then i watched a new movie called Dream Scape. The movie helped me achieve lucid dreams. Every sense I have loved me nightmares I can do anything! also a nice glass of Chocolate milk or a shot Niquil before bed seems to help triger a lucid dream for me.
May 14, 2011 9:36 PM
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I started lucid dreaming 27 years ago. The good is the fun and that certain nightmares would not effect me as I was always somewhat aware I was dreaming, even when not totally lucid. But, I think the mind has a way of compensating for its lack of ability to produce a nightmare by conjuring things which take into account the dreamers lucid dreaming abilities. So, expect some occasional nightmares of a different sort. There is a psychological reason for nightmares so the mind finds ways to accomplish the same thing.

On a different note and some won't believe me, but there are times when I am lucid and hovering near my sleeping body. And I have seen and hear things and I do not believe those are dreams. So there are dreams and there are out of body or psychic experiences. It is usually not difficult to tell the difference, but sometimes it is and can be scary.

My lucid dreaming started by reading "Seth Speaks". I read about a chapter each night. After my first lucid dream, the next pages I read, which I read the next night, Seth said he was weaving instructions for my higher self to have lucid dreams and that I should have had, or will soon have, lucid dreams. I don't read any type of Seth material as it tends to make things happen and ... I have some ingrained Christian attitudes that are incompatible (read: it scares the hell out of me). I am not sure I should even be recommending the book and material.
May 14, 2011 9:43 PM
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The "Inception" references: The movie has a premise that two dreamers can dream the same dream. I believe this is true, but that's a big jump. Lucid dreaming is not supernatural, two or more dreamers having the same dream is. My ex wife and I used to share somewhat in the same dreams at times, but there wasn't a lot of good visual in the dreams and my part of the dream was more of thought pattern than dream. When I've met people I know in a dream and asked if they were aware they were in a dream, they sort of fade away. The first time I did this, the girl (I was a teen boy) stopped talking and her eyes turned purple and I have the feeling it wasn't really her.
May 16, 2011 3:33 PM
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this is like inception on steroids.
May 16, 2011 8:27 PM
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I do this!!! especially in the dreams where I am flying !!! i love to fly in my dreams! I dream alot and write them down - I have an awesome Jungian supervisor who is helping me with the interpretations, and it is amazing how much of myself is revealed in my dreams!! its a shame not more widely practiced to allow healing of the emotions instead of band aid treatments.
May 17, 2011 10:49 PM
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Great article. Good to know that I was never going crazy when I could continue my dreams past the point of waking.
May 18, 2011 3:33 PM
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Inception??? O_o
May 20, 2011 9:17 AM
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my only curiosity is, any time i remember a dream, its something horrible happening. so 1. i dont want to stay in a dream where i gonna be killed over and over or something. how do yew have a happy dream? ha
May 22, 2011 5:42 PM
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My biggest problem is, I realizing I am dreaming, begin to have fun with it, and then forget I am dreaming again haha For realz
May 22, 2011 7:08 PM
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love stumbleupon.com (lul thats how i found this) but my bf was telling me about this a little while ago and i tried to become aware that was dreaming i did and stayed aware but i tried to think of someone being there and being in a different place because i was having a nightmare but my dream just wouldnt allow it idk why advice?
May 22, 2011 7:16 PM
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i read an article about this and most of the time you can do whatever you want but what about the "spirits" you see i read that a girl became aware of her dream then a girl appear with big scary eyes she thoughts she woke up because she was in her bed but got up saw her own body in the bed and saw the girl again and this happened again several times until finally she woke up i want to have a lucid dream but im afraid this will happen to me thoughts?
May 23, 2011 9:25 PM
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Its really fun to know ur in a dream. once, i tried looking around, off into the distance. my mind quickly had to adjust to make me see mountains. also, i have once been in a nightmare before but instead of running away from the monster, i said to him: you know, i can just wake up and you willl be gone :) it worked..
May 31, 2011 3:50 PM
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When I find myself in a dream, spinning, I usually reach a point where my dream just gets too intense for me to handle and I wake up instantly. From what it says there, these dreams would be perfect indicator signs for me to induce lucid dreams. Correct?
Jun 1, 2011 7:23 AM
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When I was younger, perhaps before the age of 16 or so, I ALWAYS had the ability to wake up whenever I wanted or stay asleep. If a nightmare was too intense I always said to myself, "let's wake up," and blamo, I did.

I think this may have been some form of lucid dreaming. While I was never really in control of my dreams directly, just knowing that I was asleep and having access to the "off switch" convinces me that I was a natural lucid dreamer.

I've since lost that ability, as well as the ability to fall asleep in the first place. I'm beginning to think my severe insomnia got it's roots in my lucid dreaming. I guess in a weird sense I've always been unable to sleep fully. Now I can't do it at all.
Jun 4, 2011 3:45 PM
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wouldn't lucid dreaming like astral projection? im afraid to try because of the insidious movie lol
Jun 4, 2011 10:26 PM
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you see this in movies and tv shows and it looks cool you are really living out yor dreams and this time in a good way!!!!!!! :)
Jun 6, 2011 9:43 PM
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Anybody else ever get stuck in a dream? About a week ago, I woke up in a dream and realized I was in someone else's house. Somewhere i had never been before. I began looking around the house, until i decided to look down at my body. It wasn't mine. It was older and bigger than my real body. This is when I realized I was dreaming. I started to freak out and tried to wake myself up, but I couldn't. I tried pinching myself, and jumping up and down, anything I could think of. Then I heard someone coming and I really got scared. So I told myself - ok if you're dreaming, your head is on a pillow. What does the pillow feel like? Is there wrinkles in the pillow cover, Is it soft? And then suddenly I woke up for real - crazy afraid. Is this lucid dreaming?
Jun 9, 2011 1:52 PM
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I may try the spinning and stuff but normally, I only wake up from the dream because it is actually morning and I get woken up T_T
Otherwise, I know I'm dreaming pretty much right away and I am aware of the things around me and I am touching 'people' and 'objects' and I am being the dream me and I love it<3 I've had dreams like this for years, even saying to dream people that I have to go 'cause I'm waking up and that I'll see them some other dream hopefully.
Jun 9, 2011 10:47 PM
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I had a lucid dream like a week ago. I was in a public restroom and something very strange (don't remember what it was) was hanging from the paper towel dispencer, so i started taking it off. When i turn to the wall i realized there was no doors (and im very claustrophobic) so i just told myself "okay don't panic". I kept staring at the wall and started to feel the texture of it with my hand to keep myself calm. That's when i realized i was dreaming. i told myself "wait i was in my living room! what am i doing here?" I panicked even more. so i told myself "calm down, calm down, wake up!" At that moment i heard something loud, what i think was the ac of my living room, closed my eyes and everything went black (like black smoke). When i opened my eyes i woke up in my living room. It was the first time i experienced something like that. It was really freaky!!!
Jun 11, 2011 1:31 PM
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Eh whoever said about the memory being stored in the heart or belly, whatever is retarted- however lucid dreaming is AWESOME. But I've tried and it doesn't work however, it kinda worked once but for only like 4 seconds. See you know the spin thing? I wrote SPIN on my hand and then in the dream I saw it written on my hand, spun and then er, woke up :(
Jun 12, 2011 10:51 PM
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wow
Jun 12, 2011 11:45 PM
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I've practiced a technique that works 100% of the time. When I go to sleep I think hard about realizing and controlling my dreams. If I think that I'm dreaming, then I look at an object, turn my head and look back at the same object. If you're dreaming the object will never be the same. Now you know that you're dreaming. You can take control and do anything that you want in your dream. Taught this to my son and he controls the majority of his dreams.
Jun 13, 2011 3:07 PM
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The thing with lucid dreaming is that its nowhere close to imagination...
Just imagining something doesnt have the same effect as dreaming something. for instance, if you imagined having sex, it wont do much but arouse you. But if you lucid dream sex, you can actually orgasm.
Jun 13, 2011 10:01 PM
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One time, I had a dream, and it was in a High School I had not been to before so I went to the restroom where I had a reality check, I looked at my IPod and to make sure it was a dream, it went from it's rectangular shape, to a circular shape. I immediately woke up, or so I thought. Everything seemed normal, I was even in the exact position and location of where I started sleeping. Dissapointed that my second lucid dream went robust I went to to the restroom and was then awoken by a Ringtone from the phone that was right next to my head. I had a dream within a dream, well actually, I had a luccid dream inside a realistic dream. It was totaly mind-blowing!!!!!! It kinda reminded me of inception..
Jun 15, 2011 3:07 PM
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What helps me to enter into a lucid state of dreaming is the "Look at Hand Method." I do it somewhat differently than you will find within the web.
Here are my steps:

1. Be completely ready for bed. [I have a process for preparing for bed that I try to stick to every night]
2. Get into bed and relax while concentrating on your breathing with a light on to illuminate enough to see your hands.
3. Observe your hands in detail for around 15 minutes and repeat this phrase over and over in your head, "When I see my hands, I will know I'm in my dream." [This actually helped me think deeper and also kept the scary, evil thoughts out of my mind that usually pop up as I'm trying to fall asleep.]
4. After you have observed your hands for an ample amount of time, turn the light off, and get into your comfortable position to sleep, but keep repeating the phrase as you drift off into your sleep. "When I see my hands, I will know I'm in my dream." [You could change the words to your liking, you just need to make sure that what you say still emanates the same meaning.]
5. When you start to dream, you may recall the phrase and lift your hands to your eye level, and when you see them, you may remember what you had said and know you're in your dream. From this point on, you have full power to control and manipulate your dream. Anything is possible.

I say "may" because it took me a few nights to get this down right. And I personally believe that not all people can accomplish lucid dreaming, but once you do achieve this, it is a wonderful and exhilarating experience.
This article talks about waking up as soon as you realize you're in your dream, and that is exactly what happened a few times before I got the hang of it.
Don't get down on yourself if it doesn't happen for you at first. It doesn't hurt to keep trying :)
Jun 17, 2011 7:46 PM
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I consistantly get Lucid dreams while napping, it allows me to maintain a grip on my concieousness :)
Jun 18, 2011 9:18 PM
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Really interesting rticle and comments. I had an incredibly lucid dream/nightmare when I was about 12. I was grown (about 25 maybe) and fighting Freddy Kruger. Only Freddy had my brother's face. He was chasing me all over this huge dark warehouse (yep, like the movies) and as I ran up to the second floor, I realized I was dreaming but I couldn't wake up. I could feel the metal catwalk under my feet and I was dressed like a superhero so I could hear the clack of my heels, the wind, the sweat, my heart was pounding and Freddy was getting closer. I remembered what you're supposed to do in the movies so I started screaming, "Wake up! Tish!!! Wake up!!!" I screamed that like 5 times and was about to be "caught" when I woke up, still running, and flung myself out of bed. It's funny now but I just about pissed myself when I looked up and saw my brother standing over me. He was making sure I was alright and I must've pierced his eardrums I screamed so loud. I've also experienced sleep paralysis and it is terrifying. What works for me when I get "stuck" is to will the other parts of my body awake. I'll take long, even breaths and try to wiggle my fingers. Once I get my fingers working usually everything else catches up although sometimes I've had to reach over to my other arm and scratch or pinch myself awake. Now THAT is a strange experience.
Jun 21, 2011 9:07 AM
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Sometimes I wake up and remember my dreams but I never realize I'm dreaming when I'm asleep. It's really annoying because 80% of the time my dreams are brilliant. I will try all the tips on this page because it sounds really fun.
Jun 22, 2011 7:26 AM
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I have lucid dream since was I kid. The first dream that I could remember is really strange! I can feel that the felling in my dream was really scary and strange! But I didn't woke up, I just let the dream went on. Everytime I dream when I was kid till I was 12, before went into a dream, I had to go over a wall! The wall and the background don't have any colour, it just black, just like when you close you eyes and you can see a tiny dot. Somehow I fell my dream always control me till I was 12 too, I managed to control so part of my dream, not all. And of course I can fly too, it very fun, and fell like I really flying! Somehow I can do some(lot?) matrial art in my dream, I can move quickly, I like that too! It was the third times that I can felt hurt or can taste something. When I felt hurt in my dream and when look at where my pain came from, I found nothing, so I thought in my dream that maybe I get hurt in the really world(that I sleeping in my bed and somehow get hurt). I can taste too, it taste sweet when I drink(I not going to say what I had drink). And I can recall most of the dream too, even in different positions when I woke up! I really enjoy when I was dreaming!
Jun 22, 2011 8:53 AM
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cool
Jun 22, 2011 11:43 AM
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Does any body else have dreams that seem to always come true? Every day to me is a deja vu. I keep trying to do something that would make it different but then its like what i just did to change it is what i did in the dream.Sometimes it feels like i am just passing through dream after dream,sometimes even like i am re living a time i already lived before..Probably don't make sense i guess.
Jun 23, 2011 7:14 PM
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I used to, when I was younger, engage in WILD dreaming without trying to or realizing it. Once or twice I was able to linger in that state for a few more moments, and somewhat control it, but usually it flees and I wake fully. I've experienced WILD a number of times since, but its mostly fleeting images and non-sequitir thoughts (but I'm still awake, often with eyes open), followed by a realization that my thoughts are actually producing visual images, not just thoughts. Then I awake fully once again.
I've had a few DILD experiences as well, but I've never been able to do too much. I've rarely had a problem with waking once I realize I'm dreaming. Usually I end up not believing I actually have the power to change it all. I know I do, it's my brain, but something is holding me back. And when you don't believe it, it makes it tough to happen. It's difficult to change things, no matter how simple.
My "reality check" technique has always been mildly biting the inside of my cheek. The sensation in reality, it hurts a bit, and I can feel my teeth biting. (I don't bite so hard as to injure myself.) In a dream, I barely feel anything. (I don't feel the pain half. Just the pressure.) It's regularly worked for me. I would, every day just about, perform this check when I thought of it. I started subconsciously doing it in my dreams. Then I would realize I was dreaming.

It's cool stuff. Really cool stuff.
Jun 24, 2011 12:31 PM
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I've done this before... It was a very strange dream though and I couldn't keep control. See there was like the evil person trying to kill me. I think that the fact that tipped me off about it being a dream was that she was "one hundred twenty twelve" which isn't a real number. I tried to bring in a policeman when I realized it was a dream, but she killed him anyways. So I guess that this is possible, maybe it didn't work for me because it was a nightmare? or because i wasn't fully aware of it being a dream?
Jun 28, 2011 11:03 AM
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thank you whoever rote this
Jul 4, 2011 11:15 PM
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Now I totally understand the movie inception! haha
Jul 8, 2011 5:39 AM
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I read this article like a months ago and after everymorning recalling what i dreamt the night b4, last nyt i had my FIRST lucid dream!
It was amazing, ws at my gf's house and had to take stuff to my place.
The scenes changed and i got a fright coz i didnt bring the things along.
Then i questioned how i got to this "new" scene, this was wen i realizd im dreaming.
At first i got too excited and rememberd i should interact with my environment so i fell on ground and touched the sand with my hands, it was wasnt extremely vivid bt yet clear.
I then managed to calm down and observe.
Weirdly enough i felt as if my ears ws a bit clogged (as being on a mountain).
I then heard some train or truck passing by on the main road nearby our house (outside my dream).
Wen walkin around i suddenly gt a bit scared of not being able to wake up and felt somewhat contained i then easily and conciously woke myself.
I tried to go to sleep again bt ws a bit too excited/nervous.

It was a gr8 experience cnt wait to do it again.

Tx so much!
Jul 9, 2011 9:59 AM
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You know you hope where this train will take you....

Jul 9, 2011 10:02 AM
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I've always had lucid dreams...It's so amazing. And ever since I saw Inception, my dreams have just become even more amazing...
Jul 12, 2011 9:51 AM
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inception
Jul 12, 2011 1:50 PM
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i dont have any of the three skills... =(
Dec 10, 2011 2:11 PM
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Cool I have been trying for a lucid dream since last night I will try the methods suggested and
Even the WBTB metho do love a challenge
Mar 17, 2012 5:33 AM
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For those asking if Lucid Dreaming is real.

It is.

The most important thing is to keep a dream journal. When I started doing this it took me about 6 days to have my first lucid dream. It happened after my previous dream ended in a parking lot. Woke up, fell back to sleep and I reappeared in the same place, I knew straight away that I was dreaming without doing any reality checks, I did just to make sure. Jumping in the air always works for me, I always do a forward sommersault and I always float a bit. Makes me realise Im dreaming.
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